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Five Steps to Meeting New People
by Sadie Peterson
Whether you’re moving to a new
city, a new job, or just want to expand your social circle, these five tips
can help you meet new people wherever you go.
1. Talk to Everyone
After years of watching a friend meet people easily everywhere he went,
I realized his secret: he talks to everyone. I don’t mean just the cute mail
guy, or the girl walking her dog. I mean everyone. Whether it’s the older
lady crossing the street, your new apartment manager, or the drug store
clerk, make it a point to say something to everyone you pass. You never know
when you might have something great in common.
2. Smile
A smile is the best way to let people know that you’re open to talking
to them. Particularly if you find it hard to start a conversation, a smile
can help you get the other person to start the conversation.
3. Have something to say
Okay, I know it’s corny, but you CAN talk about the weather. No matter
who you are or where you are, there’s something to say about the weather.
Living in sunny San Diego, I usually say “It’s gorgeous outside today – wish
I were out there!” or something along those lines. This lets people know
that you like the outdoors, and that you’ve got a positive attitude. This
works whether it’s raining (gee, we really needed this rain), snowing (wow,
the skiing will be great this year), or cloudy (it’s nice a cool out
today!).
Don’t want to discuss the
weather? Discuss a current event. Read up on the latest celebrity trial,
natural disaster, or scientific breakthroughs, and you’ll always have
something to say. In line at the grocery store, you can always comment on
the magazine cover stories.
4. Ask Questions
You’re new in town, take advantage of it! Ask people where the best
sports bar is, which museum to visit first, or where to find the perfect
margarita, and you’ll get the ball rolling to meeting a new friend.
5. Compliment, compliment, compliment
You should never do this if it’s not sincere, but a compliment is always
a great conversation starter. And, it starts the conversation on a positive
note, so people are already responding favorably to you. Tell the waitress
her shoes are great, compliment your neighbor’s car, let a clerk know she’s
doing a great job.
About The Author
Sadie Peterson has helped hundreds of people meet new friends. Her website,
http://www.aroundtownsandiego.org, helps members meet each other and
explore San Diego
Now that you have some new pick up tips, select your state to get started
meeting new people. Use the above information to meet women and men near
you.
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